" जब तक हम बेटी के जन्म का भी वैसे ही
स्वागत नहीं करते जितना बेटे के जन्म का,
स्वागत नहीं करते जितना बेटे के जन्म का,
तब तक हमे समझना चाहिए की भारत विकलांग रहेगा l "
- महात्मा गाँधी l
- महात्मा गाँधी l
Our Great Bapu is saying, Until we will not celebrate the birth of a
Daughter as same as the birth of a Son. Then we should understand
that our Country will remain Handicapped.
As the thing is only about the enthusiastic or unenthusiastic feelings
of the celebration, during the birth of a child.
But the present scenario of the country is so different from the word
said by our Lovely Bapu.
Here the peoples are now become more harsh than before, celebration
is so far even they don't want to see a glimpse of a child also, as they
are hardly trying not to bring the child in the world and also not to
behave well with them who's already in the world. i.e, "THE GIRL" The
most beautiful, lovely and respectful thing created by the God on this
Earth.
Sometimes it seems like that the people had already taken an Oath
that rather than themselves nobody or woman/girl suppose to enjoy
or live in this world which shows that they've forgotten about
themselves that from where they had came. Angerness starts from
foolishness and ends at the regret.
"Men are what their Mothers made them"
- Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Actually the real Truth is that the People forget about the one word
completely, i.e, "Respect", the meaning as well as the use of it.
This isn't enough my friends, the condition is more worse than it and I
can't think that there's any person left who's unaware of this shameful
conditions...
Is our Country become something more than Handicapped or also
Become Blind along with it ?
This isn't my words but the worse condition of the country saying
more worse than it.
Lets go more deep to the point and see how it seems more worse than
worsen...
Here the things related to the problems faced
by the Women are:
# In every 1 hour a Woman is losing her life due the Dowry system.
# In every 48 min a Woman faced the vulgarity and
misbehaving forcefully.
# In every 26 min a woman get kidnapped.
# In every 25 min a woman get raped.
# In every 14 min a woman faced the incident of molestation.
# In every 7 min a woman harass by her own husband and his family.
# In every 1 min abortion is occuring only due the Girl child
present in the Womb.
Actually we are able to know this kind of things only by those cases or
crimes which are only complained in the Police stations. But we know
the truth, the maximum numbers of cases or crimes are not
complained due to Society, Support and etc.
My main aim is to point you all towards the main question, i.e, Why the
maximum Women of our country is suffering?
Truth is that in our society, Women always taken as a inferior in front of
Men. Our society is the Male dominated Society from the very early
time. Where the Men decisions are the final decisions.
If a Man looks a Woman as a Mother or Sister then it increase the
reputation of a Women and she become the respectful in the Society
and if the same man looks a same woman lustfully and if anything
happened wrong by the wrong behaviour of the Man, then after the
complained of the Woman to the Society, the Society reacts just
opposite to it and blame the woman itself and her character also
and due to it the Man proved to be more respectful in the Society.
as the assailants used to repeatedly tease and harass her and
when she opposed them they attacked her with the acid,
which completely ruined her life and left her blind and partially deaf.
After fed-up from the world, Now she wants to die and has demanded
euthanasia as she cannot afford her medical costs also. Lots of women
facing this kind of problems all over the world...
This is the real Justice???
Actually this is the real truth of our Society and this could be only
changed by the Positive and Literate thought of our Society.
The time has changed now and we should understand the Truth.
This change is only possible by the Men Society.
"Literate Future" is the results of our only "Literate behaviour."
Now tell me friends, what you think about of our country?
well one quotes is coming in my mind, i.e
" आप किसी भी देश की हालत का अंदाजा लगाना चाहते है,
तो वहां की महिलाओं की हालत देखकर लगा सकते है l "
- जवाहर लाल नेहरु l
- जवाहर लाल नेहरु l
We must be get amazed by knowing this?
But now, let me make you more amazed by saying this, i.e,
I can't think we should blame Our Country first because I think,
The river "Ganga" as the peoples are continue polluting its water
and makes it drinkless but It's name always taken as pure as it was
always known.
In the same way our name of the Country, i.e "INDIA" the peoples
are making it worse day by day and making it more worse especially
for the women but It's name all over the world taken as Pure and
Respectful country in the world.
As the Character signifies the personality of the Person and here we
are the peoples who is the only reason for the characters of our Pure
and Respectful Country, i.e "Our India"...
"You'll change then the World will change"
- Mahatma Gandhi.
I'm saying in this way because we peoples are very good in blaming
others rather than doing something else. We blame the Government,
Government blame the Parents and the Doctors as well in case of
abortion, Doctors blame the Parents. Parents blame the Society. At
last nobody wants to take blame on themselves.
BLAME - No Single Raindrop Believes It Is Responsible For The Flood.
Now if I ask the Question,
Who's the Government ???
Who's the Parents ???
Who's the Doctor ???
Who's the Society ???
Answer should be "WE" only because we represents the particular Professions,
Relations and as well as the Country.
"WE" are the main problems of this tragedy and it can be
handled or solved by "WE" only...
The main reasons behind it, the change of thought towards the
Women and as well as the corrupted mind make the Peoples totally
Blind and by which they aren't able to judge themselves and their
harmful activities also.
Even they don't have the fear of God also. Infact they don't believe or
follow the "Law Of Karma", but no body can stop this Law as everybody know.
"As you Sow, as you Reap"
This is not suited to Our Country, as our all spirituals books of all
religons taught us to Love equally all the living creatures around us.
Sometimes It makes me very much amazed, as we Worship the Idols of
Devi Durga, Laxmi and Saraswati in the form of Mothers. Infact We respect
the word "Mothers" up to that level as we also signifies our land as a
Mother of the country. Even after we don't hesitate to take a life of a child
because child is a "Girl".
We should Pray for the welfare of this and think about this that
what we are doing and why we are doing?
As we are the part of our Society then there
must be our some responsiblity towards it, just take it...
" जब भी समाज में अत्याचार होता है,
आत्म-सम्मान ईसी में है की ऊठो और
कहो की यह अत्याचार आज ही ख़त्म
करना होगा क्योंकि न्याय पाना मेरा हक है l " - सरोजनी नायडू
A Woman plays a lots of role in our life and each role have its own
importance and value like Mothers, wife, sisters and etc. Woman also
plays a vital role because she has the power to give, care and change
the Life. One Mother is equal to the one Hundred Teachers.
"God could not be everywhere therefore he made Mother on the sphere."
"You educate a man; you educate a man,
You educate a woman; you educate a generation.”
― Brigham Young
This means not, Women should start showing power on Men and start
fighting for their higher position. Here the thing is to make a
beautiful Society togetherly, where the value of both is taken as
equally and respectfully.
"The choosing of the path is in our hand only."
To bring the change in the Society there's need to change the thought
of a Man towards the Woman and also the thought of the Woman towards
the Woman itself, the matter of woman harassment by the women itself is
same as the matter of the prisoner have with other prisoner...
" कई बार हम सोंचते है की गरीबी सिर्फ भूखे रहना, कपड़े ना होना और बेघर होना है,
लेकिन जब किसी को तुम्हारा ज़रूरत ना हो, तुम्हारा ध्यान ना रखे, तुम्हें किसी
का प्यार ना मिले - असल में ये सबसे बड़ी गरीबी है, अगर हम इस गरीबी को ख़त्म
करना चाहते है, तो हमे इसकी शुरुआत अपने ही घर से करनी होगी l "
- मदर टेरेसा l
My aim is to bring only "CHANGE" in ourselves and others as well,
my intention is not to blame anyone or to discuss more deep
on this topic but still I'm very amazed by myself that
I'm able to share a lots of things with you all because
when I see these things then that time I've nothing
in my mind rather than silence and tears in my eyes...
अब मैं आप सबों से बस इतना ही कह पाउँगा, इस देश के लोग मानसिक रूप से
विकसित पूरी तरह से तभी हो पाएंगे, जिस दिन ये गर्व से कहना सीख लेंगे.......
- Raj Kiran Gupta
